Maybe I am wishy-washy but in a good way. :D I have been pretty good at avoiding controversy in my fandom career so far, and that makes for a happier experience. Not assigning blame sounds good but not assigning responsibility seems fishy. It reminds me of those passive voice constructions like "Mistakes were made" that just make me cringe. Also there are times when I do have strong feelings about things but I don't talk about them for fear of alienating or offending people, and then I feel like a wimp. (But I avoid alienating and offending people, which feels good! You see! I cannot make a decision to save my life!)