oh you. oh you. can i hug you? it made me so happy to come home from work and read this intelligent, insightful, yummy post. and i am much too sleep deprived to post any thoughtful response, and to do much but just say: yes! thank you for saying this! right on! and fucking, thank you man for all these awesome recs. so many of them i haven't read. i'm going to bookmark them for a rainy day. sweet. ♥ ♥ ♥